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John Cusano's avatar

Oshan, when I realized that this intriguingly titled piece was written by you and about your Dad, I immediately dropped everything to absorb it. I've read it twice now and will likely read it again (and share it with a few close friends). Your reflections are absolutely beautiful. It's such a meaningful collection of your questions, thoughtful observations, philosophical impressions, and vulnerable moments. It's the most fitting tribute to Rick, whom I loved dearly and wish I could be with again just one more time (the photo at the end of the piece is stunning and I've saved a copy). I know no one like Rick, and you've captured your father's spirit and quirks as only his remarkably perceptive and insightful son could. I'm sure Rick loves this tribute. It's helped me (and Morgan) as we continue to shape and sculpt the loss of such a unique and important person in our lives. Thank you so much for digging deeply and sharing your ideas, love, and caring. It means a lot in so many ways.

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Kim June Johnson's avatar

Oh my goodness. What an exquisite essay. What a gift to find it. Your father was a teacher of mine. And wow, does this piece ever ring with the same grace I encountered in your father's teachings. Thank you.

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